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chocolate chaos - 2006-12-04 15:07:13
yeah its his loss.. we all know what a charmer you really are
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Kat - 2006-12-04 15:36:13
I'm sorry Witty. But, yeah, next time don't hang around after being given your walking papers. And try not to be so hard on yourself; you're learning as you go. Now, on to the next. Good luck!
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Miss Hiss - 2006-12-04 15:48:03
Yes, well, presumably he's looking for someone with "charm" to compensate for that quality he personally is so sorely lacking. And I do hope that one day you get the chance to tell him, "Oh, handyman - of course it never would have worked between us. You remind me far too much of my father, and I just never saw you in a sexually attractive fashion." Nothing does more for a man's ego than to be thought of as a cardigan-wearing pipe-smoking safe dull boring ordinary old bloke, instead of the dynamic field-playing heart-breaking love-god stud he is in his very inflated (and very tiny-brained) head. What a jerk. (And your nipples sound positively delicious, of course.) Love, R xxx
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rs536-2000 - 2006-12-04 16:08:14
He's a jerk, a schmuck and ass and NOT A CHARMER. What the hell is THAT about. yuck. I'm truly sorry.
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Andria - 2006-12-04 16:14:06
Um. The fact that he CAN'T see how charming you are proves what a turd he is. Men like that drive me crazy, and will continue to be single. You deserve much, much better, witty.
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Smed - 2006-12-04 16:23:51
Ptui!
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warcrygirl - 2006-12-04 17:10:08
In the words of the great Nightmare54: what a cocksucking doorknob.
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Phil - 2006-12-04 17:38:22
According to the science dictionary (when you're camping at engineers house, this is all I can find) a charmer is "a quantum number assigned the value +1 for one kind of quark, −1 for its antiquark, and 0 for all other quarks". The idiot is an anti-charmer.
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Kathy - 2006-12-04 18:15:10
What everybody else said. To hell with him. Next!
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spazs - 2006-12-04 18:25:16
I would just pick him if I were you. Just tell him to go out with you. Why always wait? Tell him to go out. Tell him what you want him to do, then have him do it. Why do you play so...shy or something? If you want a relationship, then go out and grab one. Of course you�re gorgeous, but everyone has different taste and goals. Why do you like this game so much where you have no word in it at all? What if the next guy still doesn�t want more intimacy (or what it is you need)? Are you gonna take action then?
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LA - 2006-12-04 18:27:17
God what an asshole. Now what are you supposed to do with all this whomped up hope and libido? What a creepy unfair totally not nice thing to do. Charmer. Heh. I wish you had shown him your charming backside. You do not EVER settle for crumbs. Does he have landscaping at his house? An anonymous note to the Hacker might, you know, send him Handy's way. heh heh heh. Don't chew yourself to bits if you can help it, darling. That turd is so not worth it. ~LA
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Fuzzy Grey - 2006-12-04 18:31:56
Oooooh!!! Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl!!! Next time, at the FIRST mention of another woman, you take your purple laced heaving breasts and your 218,000 mile car and you get the hell out of there. You don't have time for that. You're worth too much. I understand why you don't think so, of course I do, but you've been down that road before, and the idea is to learn. You are better than crumbs! BETTER THAN CRUMBS, I SAY!!!!!
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Heather - 2006-12-04 18:55:53
Wow. I'll give Handyman a point (and only a SINGLE point) for being honest with you and not just vanishing and leaving you wondering. But he's gone into negative brownie points with all his other actions. I ditto what the others have said - you deserve much better and the guy is obviously more interested in racking up the date count than making the *date* count. It still hurts like hell - but that means you still feel. And if Mae West didn't say "If you can't fuck 'em, fuck 'em," she should have. :)
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Meany - 2006-12-04 19:44:34
I second Heather's comment up there -- at least he just came out and TOLD you he was a superficial douchebag (in not so many words, of course), instead of stringing you along for ever and ever. And mad propz to you for not pouting about it. You know you rock, so someone who deserves your rockingness will surely come along eventually.
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Halo Askew - 2006-12-04 20:21:05
What a complete fucking asswad! It's one thing to find out he only sees you as a buddy (OUCH!!), but to turn around and talk about other women in front of you??!! I hope he has fun burning in hell with his soccer mom whore. (Required listening: "Get Over Yourself" by Eden's Crush, "Walk Away" by Kelly Clarkson, "Believe" by Cher, "Before He Cheats" by Carrie Underwood, "The Middle" by Jimmy Eat World, "You Had Me" by Joss Stone, "Hung Up" by Madonna).
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skibigsky - 2006-12-04 20:47:00
You ARE a goddess. And that is not relative thing - you are a goddess regardless of what anyone else thinks.
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Xat - 2006-12-04 21:18:21
Well, what an ass-hat he is. Just remember that time wounds all heels; and that there is someone out there who can appreciate your goddessness, your wit, and you. What a pill. Truly Witty, you're one charming lady--too bad HandyBoy is such a cretin.
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Loob - 2006-12-05 10:26:36
Only a complete DICK would talk at you you about his myriad other fascinating (IMAGINARY) women. You dodged a bullet there. I don't actually believe he has a stable of women, but that he might be one of those strange creatures that somehow inexplicably formed the opinion that women would be IMPRESSED by such strutting and posturing. When in fact we roll our eyes and feel that pity/revulsion thing.
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Loob - 2006-12-05 10:31:17
Only a complete DICK would talk at you about his myriad other fascinating (IMAGINARY) women. You dodged a bullet there. I don't actually believe he has a stable of women, but that he might be one of those strange creatures that somehow inexplicably formed the opinion that women would be IMPRESSED by such strutting and posturing. When in fact we roll our eyes and feel that pity/revulsion thing.
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Poolie - 2006-12-05 10:59:12
I'm so sorry, witty. He is really missing out, but it sounds like you are better off without him.
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Kungfukitten - 2006-12-05 11:12:20
Witty, you are beautiful physically, you are so witty and funny that you should be an actress, and you are an extradordinarily talented artist. You just need to embrace all that you are and flaunt it, baby. Act like you're all that and a bag of chips and fantastic men will fall at your feet. I looked up in my Medicine Card book about symbolism of the bear and I think you'll find it very interesting. There's a .pdf file online here: http://www.carmel.com/scott/05-bear.pdf I think you'll find it fascinating for interpreting both of your dreams. XOXO
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Seacreature - 2006-12-06 16:24:11
Don't let this guy get you down. ONE GUY. Like the others said, it hurts of course, butcha gotta move on. There are jillions of inconsiderate, rude, selfish cock suckers in the world. Unfortunately, you just gotta sort through them to find the good ones. Now that you've gotten some new experience, you KNOW you can do it.
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